Palmer Luckey, the 26-year-old founder of Oculus VR, is leading the charge to get tech companies and the Defense Department on the same page

Oculus and Anduril Founder Palmer Luckey. Photo: Pedro Fiúza/NurPhoto via Getty Images

By Lara Seligman

SIMI VALLEY, California — Palmer Luckey stands out. At just 26 years old, the…